Tuesday, July 6, 2010

Love scene? Guess not.

A good plot always involves some sort of love interest for the main character but in the story of my life the 'love interest' is still under development. It's been one year since my last boyfriend and at first I was displeased since my life seems more full with a certain guy in it, but now I view things differently. I don't mind being single anymore because it gives me the chance to do somethings that I never could before. Such as just go hang out with whoever I want whenever I want, whether it be a date or just a few friends. I have always been a flirty person so I enjoy the freedom of not being tied down and the ability to flirt with anyone.
When I was younger I made up my mind that I wanted to get married at an early age but now that I have reached the desired age I see myself pushing away from that life. Now I don't want to get married til I am at least 23 and I don't want to have kids til a minimum of a year or two after that. I see now that I don't have to rush through life, that I can slow things down and enjoy them while I can. I want to do so much before I get married and settle down for that kind of life.

Another thing I never thought that I would change my mind about was my age limits on the guys I date. On an old guy checklist I wrote, I made the comment about how I would only date guys older and there would be a 3 year difference as the limit. Well I broke that rule more than once by dating guys who were 5 years and even 7 years older than me. And recently I have been going on dates with guys younger than me which is definitely a change of pace but I view it as a good one. I haven't dated any minors though which is probably a very good thing considering I would be breaking the law...

Guess this is good enough to start off my newfound blogging life.